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It Aint Easy Being Green

But, is it any easier being the yellow and blue that make up the green?

Let me explain.

I was at a writing workshop the other weekend, the same event that Letitia had her unfortunate car trouble. Automobile At this workshop were many of our colleagues in broadcast journalism.  One was a gentleman named Ray - -a reporter who worked for another station. As part of an exercise, the person running the workshop interviewed Ray about his personal life.  During the interview, Ray revealed that he was bi-racial -- white mother, black father.  That caught my attention, because my kids are also bi-racial, black mother, white father. After the interview, I pulled Ray aside and asked him was there advice his mother gave him to deal with people who ridiculed him for being of "mixed race"?  I was surprised by his answer. Ray said no, there wasn't anything really to say.  He said he was aware of other people's problems with interacial relationships that resulted in bi-racial children - -and that's exactly what it was "their problem". 

This was encouraging and frustrating at the same time.  I'm encouraged that there's a good chance my kids will adopt the same attitude and see any prejudice as a "their problem" issue.  But, as a mother, I feel very protective - as any parent does - of my daughters and want to try and make their path down life as care-free as possible.  PersonWe just welcomed the 300-millionth American to the population, chances are they are going to run into ignorance and intolerance -- how can I prepare them?

Then, I thoughtIdea "how did my parents prepare me for the prejudice I experienced being black?"  They didn't.  They just taught me to abide by the Golden Rule.  It's a simple one really -- but boy what a punch it packs.  And it doesn't matter if you're black, white, yellow, blue or green -- it's a principal I'm proud to strive for and teach my kids to do the same.

In the end, they'll learn -- just like Kermit the Frog -- it might not be easy being green Music-- but boy it sure is beautiful.

 

Published Wednesday, October 18, 2006 7:36 AM by sherrychristian

Comments

 

PaulLynch said:

Very well said Sherry!

I think Ray had very good advice - and, it IS "their problem" and not your daughters'.  Of course you want to be protective of your girls...but, there's nothing wrong with them.  

The more people stop teaching hate, and passing that hate from generation to generation, the better our society will be.  I was sick to my stomach after seeing young children next to those KKK members in Gettysburg a few weeks back.  Nice to be a coward and cover up your face and then teach your children to hate others, for no other reason than what they look like.

October 18, 2006 8:27 AM
 

ShannonDavidson said:

Here's my advice Sherry.  If any of your three beautiful girls ever has a problem with people who are just plain stupid - they should tell Aunt Shannon, and she'll take care of it.
October 19, 2006 2:12 PM
 

sherrychristian said:

That's one of the images that haunts me, too Paul -- seeing young children at hate group rallies, waving the flag, punching the air with their fists and having really no comprehension of what they're advocating -- just parrotting mommy and daddy.  That's why it's so encouraging to see more people at the peace rallies with their kids.

And Aunt Shannon -- you rock!  Not to sound like your mom or anyone else - -but hurry up and have children please so ours can play together. Cali keeps asking why she doesn't have a brother.  And since Jeremy and I are SOOOO not having more kids -- it's up to Aunt Shannon to provide that "little brother" for Cali.  heehee
October 20, 2006 2:12 AM
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About sherrychristian

Sherry Christian is married with 3 daughters, Megan, Tatum & Cali. She and her husband, Jeremy live on the West Shore. Watch Sherry Christian weeknights at 5 and 5:30pm on "CBS 21 News".

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